Conventional rules of polite society tell us that under no circumstances, at no time, not even for one moment should you ever upstage the bride.

Don’t wear white, they say.

Mind the cleavage…

Never a floor-length gown.

If you ask us, we'd say that's all nonsense.

On our wedding day, we want to make sure everyone is feeling good. And when you look good, you feel good.

So we're shaking things up a little bit!

We encourage you to take “dress to impress” as your prompt--whatever that means to you--and have fun with it.

This means wear something you feel fabulous in!* And don't be afraid to outshine the brides.

*No sweatpants or costumes, but the rest is up to you.

The most important thing to us is that you feel comfortable and like yourself!

Hate dresses? Don't wear one.

Hate ties? Don't wear one of those either.

Love tutus, bows, sequins, neon, lace, velour, ruffles, latex, or powder blue tuxes? Be our guest.

Always wondered if all that glitters really is gold? Don't let us dim your sparkle.

If you're in search of some inspiration, check out this Pinterest board we made. If this prompt sounds way too obscure or intimidating, don't sweat it. Just follow your heart and be yourself!

Just don't forget to bring your dancing shoes for a party to remember.